Whether you
just found a roommate or you are joining your partner, combining households can
add up to double the moving stress if you aren’t careful. If you have kids or
pets involved, things can get especially chaotic. It’s important to give this
transition some forethought and a little planning so that everything runs as
smoothly as possible. After all, you wouldn’t want to get things off to a bad
start with your new roommate or partner.
Reduce items first. For many people,
moving is a great time to sort through everything and pair down their
possessions. This will be especially important when two households come
together since you have double the items fitting into one space. Take the extra
time to go through your closets, storage spaces, and garages to get rid of any
items that you are no longer using. You can donate these to charity, sell, or
simply throw away anything you are not likely to use anytime in the near
future. You may want to make an inventory of the furniture and appliances at
each home and then sit down with your partner to discuss which items will stay
and which will go. It’s no good to hold onto duplicates of most items since
this will simply be clutter in your new home. Discuss what items each of you
particularly likes and wants to keep in order to avoid getting rid of items
that mean a lot to you or your partner.
Merge styles. One of the challenges of
merging households is that you have two different decorating styles to work
with. When all your furniture and decorative items perfectly match but are
different styles and colors than those of your partner, you will have to
jointly make a decision about which set to keep. If you are keeping some basic
furniture items but want to change the overall look of the décor to suit both
of you, then consider two things. First, are there some items you currently
have that will work with the new decorating scheme? If so that may be a good
way to reduce the cost of completely redecorating a living space. Second, find
common ground as far as colors and styles you are both interested in. It may
not be your first choice for décor but a second-best decorating scheme may make
each of you feel more comfortable and at home.
Divide up household duties. Right from
the get-go be sure to determine who will be responsible for household chores.
Whose job is it to take out the trash? Who will wash the kitchen floor? What
about the bathroom? You may also want to determine how often these tasks should
be completed. If there are kids involved, it’s a good idea to include them in
household chores. Make a chore list with each person’s name next to the chores
they are assigned to complete so that everyone is aware of who is responsible
for what.
Discuss financial responsibilities.
Similar to discussing how you will divide up household chores, you should also
talk to your partner about financial responsibilities. Will you divide all the
expenses evenly, each person paying an equal portion or will each person be
responsible for certain bills? For example maybe one person will pay for the
rent while the other person pays for groceries and household utilities. Or you
can record all expenses and divide up the total cost at the end of the month.
When
combining households you can avoid problems by thoroughly communicating with
one another before anything becomes an issue. If everyone is in understanding
about their responsibilities, then you are on the road to a happily united
household.
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